Help me with my son-in-law.

by Marama
(NZ)

My partner 17 years dupes around of the 4 year in our relationship and has obtained the other woman and myself at the same time pregnant almost... She is pregnant first, and he left do me the responsible thing... 2 months later I discovered that I was pregnant also but that you did nothing to do with him, as you can imagine.

My son was born prematurely and 2 weeks later their son was born... they are beaten and split in the duration of pregnancy and the first few months, and when the baby was 4 months, they divide for good.

During this time, he was trying to have relations with me has not allow was still painful and wanted to focus on my son... after 9 months to try to take back with me and my son and would bring his son of spending time with his brother... I could see that he wanted another lady simply their son who she had given to his family at this time.

I helped him in my life, as it showed me that it was remorseful and we wanted to... He also asked if we could go for custody of his son and educate all YHA boys ' accepted and we have combated by the courts and finally obtained to see him when he was 2 ans.alors, her mother was to have another baby and did not occupy the same boy, but it was kept secret from us.

After the regular visits, she allowed him to come with us for 2 weeks... this kid has only 2, but there is a nasty work... our son has been bitten, beaten with toys ie.camions locks b anytime he wanted something our son had it would beat him and take it off him... should be food plate of his brother, and his hand and wouldn't share and hide our

missing son things and does not let it play with the toys... everything was "mine" … it was horrible.

This dashboard every visit... Finally at the age of 3 years, we could see clearly that he was not yet living with his mother and they did not have a relationship, and it not him resume 1 day fair and we said that we could have him... He has been with us for 8 years old this year and we have a 9 year daughter and have another baby due in November.

It has improved a lot, but it still has many problems behaviors when it does not get its own chemin.Il sulks and gets mainly disrespectful toward me and his brother and his soeur.Il gets violent with them and their things wreck and hide their special things and lie that sometimes gets trouble... their father is still listening... but I know that all 3 of my children when they are true, they persist with their versions.

His behavior comes from school also... and we are often called it the reason...his mother has nothing to do with him, and he has not done since some années.Je would always be one run after him have something to do with this boy, this is what he wants, but it has five other children all different fathers, and only the last edition living with her... he is almost 12 and all what he wants is a kind of attention of sound, but it shows only.

We suffer as a result... which can do for him... it causes battles between his father and me, and when his father is not research gives me a cheeky smirk that I try to ignore, but I draw the line when it hurts other children and takes in their... his father think its all a phase and it will increase it... grrrr!

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